There have been some budding romances as a result, but the dinners primarily offer a place to build authentic connection in a social setting, without the intensity of a one-on-one date or the pressure of any specific outcome. I love to cook, but for these dinners I keep it simple – seasonal dishes served family-style, prepared in advance so that I don’t get stuck in the kitchen. I’ve hosted four now, varying the cast by delving deep into my contacts and badgering everyone I know to send single friends my way – old housemates, friends’ partner’s brothers all are welcome.